Who Has Legal Rights to a Child?

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 Who Has Legal Rights to a Child?

The person with the right over a child can vary from case to case.

The child’s best interests are used to decide who gets custody of the child. That is, the needs and requirements of the child always come before the wants and preferences of adults.

Still, you can usually get legal rights to a child by:

  1. The mother: Traditionally, the courts have given the mother primary custody, and the father pays child support.
  2. The father: A child’s father can also get custody rights, especially if the child’s mother is unable or unwilling to take care of the child.
  3. Stepparents: When a couple gets divorced and remarries, stepparents often take over custody of the children.
  4. Grandparents: In some custody cases, grandparents’ rights to care for their grandchildren are just as important as those of the biological parents.
  5. Close relatives and other people: The courts usually give custody to the biological parents, but if that isn’t possible, they may look at other people.

So, deciding who gets to keep a child can involve more than one person. Often, a parent’s legal rights to a child will change over time as the child and the parents’ lives change.

What Are Mother’s Rights?

Before deciding who gets custody of the child, the court will examine whether the child was born outside of wedlock.

Rules about custody for parents who aren’t married vary greatly from place to place. If the child was born outside of marriage, proving parental rights can make figuring out who will have custody much harder.

By law, in some places, the unmarried mother automatically gets to keep the child. But sometimes, this isn’t what’s best for the child, in which case the child’s biological father, who isn’t married, has the right to go after custody.

As the child’s main caregiver, the mother’s rights include the full legal power to make all decisions about the child’s well-being.

Some examples include:

  1. The right to decide who can see their child and how long they can see them;
  2. The right to choose where the child lives and to put them in any school they want.
  3. The right to make medical decisions for the child, as long as it’s what’s best for the child;
  4. The right to get help from the government for their child, like food stamps; and
  5. The freedom to choose what to do outside of school, what religion to follow, where to travel, etc.

Basically, the mother has the same right as any parent with legal custody to make important decisions about their child’s life.

A child would have two mothers in a same-sex marriage, but the law isn’t as clear and set as it is in heterosexual marriages.

Because of this, it is harder to figure out what matters when deciding which mother gets to keep the child. Fundamentally, the same basic rules will apply, and, likely, this won’t change the rights of the parents.

What Rights Do Stepparents Have?

When it comes to their stepchildren, stepparents have few legal rights. This is because a divorce ends a marriage, not a person’s rights as a parent.

So, each biological parent still has rights to their own child.

Since this is the case, stepparents only have a few legal rights unless they go through the adoption process.

On the other hand, a court might decide that the child and stepparent’s relationship is better for the child. In this case, they might side with the stepparent instead of one of the real parents.

When a stepparent gets divorced from the child’s real parent, that is also a unique situation.

Even though the stepparent and child may have grown close during the marriage, the marriage is no longer valid, and the stepparent has no legal standing. They do not automatically have the same rights to custody or visitation as a biological parent.

The “parental preference rule” says that a child’s biological parents are best able to make decisions based on their needs and best interests.

The parental preference rule says that if a stepparent divorces the child’s biological parent and then asks for a visitation schedule, but the biological parent says no, the stepparent will not get what they want.

But if the stepparent was married to the child’s biological parent for a long time and helped pay for the child, the case may have more weight and be given more consideration.

If the biological parent has died, a stepparent may also be able to get what they want. If the child’s other biological parent has been deemed unfit, they may not get the first choice either.

Each state has different laws about when and how a stepparent can visit.

Over twenty states have some way for stepparents to petition for visitation rights. Some states’ laws make it clear that stepparents can petition for rights, while others call stepparents who want rights “interested third parties” when they do so.

Still, other states don’t have laws that let stepparents ask for visitation.

What Types of Rights Are Involved with Child Custody?

There are many different responsibilities and rights that come with having a child custody arrangement.

Some rights that come with having custody of a child are:

  1. The right of the parent to live with the child (“physical custody”)
  2. The right to make decisions for the child (called “legal custody“), which can include choices about schooling, religion, name changes, and other important things.

Along with these rights, the parent who has custody of the child has a number of responsibilities. These include:

  • Getting the child’s basic needs met (such as food, clothing, housing, etc.)
  • If necessary, help the child with different legal decisions

In some cases, the parent who has custody of the child may be responsible for some laws that the child broke.

Visitation rights can also be an important part of a child custody agreement.

Who Has Legal Rights to a Child When Parents Are Not Married?

If both parents of a child have been legally established, custody and child support disputes will probably be handled as if the parents were legally married under child custody laws for unmarried parents. When a child is born to a woman who is not married, most states and situations give the mother full custody of the child.

Without a court order, a father who hasn’t proven he is the child’s father has no legal right to the child. There is no presumption of paternity, which means that a child’s father who is not married is not automatically thought to be his biological father. Because of this, unmarried fathers may not get custody of their children or even the right to see them.

At first glance, this seems very unfair to the father who has never been married. This is how the system works so that unmarried mothers can’t go after child support from the father, which would be unfair if they didn’t first prove paternity and give the father rights.

Do I Need a Lawyer for Help with Child Custody Rights?

Laws about child custody are important because they can change a child’s life for a long time.

You might need to hire a local child custody lawyer if you need help with any of the custody laws in your area.

A lawyer in your area can help you with your case and look into the law to determine your rights as a parent when it comes to child custody.

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