In most states a “true” sperm donor automatically gives up his rights as any sort of parent. "True sperm donors" are individuals that have the insemination process done through a licensed doctor. Most state laws that offer this protection are clear that if the sperm donor is not the mother’s husband, then:
Informally donating your sperm to a woman or couple will not protect:
For the first part of the rule to apply, the donor must NOT be the mother's husband. If you ARE the husband, a court may automatically rule that you are the father, even if:
If you wish to donate sperm and want no child obligations, then you should always involve a licensed doctor.
Many states changed their laws about sperm donors, and some states offer no protection at all. For example, Pennsylvania recently ruled that a sperm donor had to pay child support for the child he created. The court ruled against him even though:
Don't be so sure! Many states treat contracts that relinquish parental rights as "against public policy." These kinds of contracts may be unenforceable. Even if you have a well-written contract, the courts may still throw it out and force full parental obligations on you.
It is still a good idea to have a written contract because the court may use the contract to determine the parties' intentions. This is why it is important to use a doctor AND consult a lawyer familiar with the laws of your state, before going ahead with sperm donation.
In some situations, a sperm donor might want to be a father to the child he helped conceived. Laws differ from state to state, but parentage of non-married persons can be established by:
Although written contracts cannot relinquish rights, many states allow written agreements to establish parental rights.
Laws concerning sperm donor rights vary from state to state. For example:
Anonymous sperm donation is done through a sperm bank. Almost every state allows this practice because the contract is between you and the sperm bank. Since the contract is not with the mother, your anonymity and waiver of rights/obligations can be upheld.
Some states do, however, have laws that allow children of anonymous sperm donors to learn the identity of their genetic father when they turn 21. Again, it is important that you contact a lawyer and talk to the bank about your rights before committing to a decision.
The decision to help another person create life is a noble one. Decisions about your sperm donation may seem minor at the time, but can greatly affect the rest of your life, and the life of the child. In a field of law as volatile as this one, it is wise to contact a family law lawyer specializing in these sorts of arrangements.
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