Same-Sex Divorce Lawyers

Can Married Same-Sex Couples Get a Divorce?

Because same-sex marriage is only recognized in Massachusetts, getting a same-sex divorce can be difficult.  If you and your same-sex partner were married under Massachusetts law, you can only get a divorce if you are Massachusetts residents or if the cause of divorce is an act of infidelity that occurred in Massachusetts.  If you do not meet these criteria, then you will not be able to get a legal divorce.  

However, the legal effect of a non-Massachusetts couple who is prevented from getting a divorce may not be great, as no other government, state or federal, recognizes the same-sex marriage in the first place.  The practical effect (property and custody issues), on the other hand, may be of great difficulty.

Same-Sex Divorces in Massachusetts

All divorces in Massachusetts are treated the same, regardless of whether they involve heterosexual couples or same-sex couples.  This gives married Massachusetts same-sex couples a great advantage over others because it allows them to utilize the state rules and procedures for divorces.  Those who do not have access to same-sex divorce often must rely on many different courts in order to legally divide property.  

However, there are a few issues which make same-sex divorces tricky.  For example, most divorce settlements take into account the length of the relationship.  A same-sex couple may have been living together for 20 years before Massachusetts decided to allow same-sex marriage.  Thus, should the length of the relationship be evaluated at 20 plus years, or the much shorter length of the legal marriage?

Children and Same-Sex Divorce

In Massachusetts, same-sex couples can adopt children (see Adoption by Gay and Lesbian Parents).  In cases of same-sex divorce, child custody is treated as it would be in any heterosexual marriage.  However, in all other states which do not allow same-sex divorce, custody of children arising from same-sex relationships is not as clear and is ultimately based on the best interests of the children. (see Non-Parent Child Custody)

Do I Need a Lawyer for my Same-Sex Divorce?

The legal process of divorce is complicated and involves many issues.  Additionally, same-sex divorces are a new and changing area of law.  An experienced attorney can help ensure that your rights are protected.  If you are a same-sex couple who does not meet the criteria for a same-sex divorce in Massachusetts, an attorney can advise you of other options that may be available.